For the sake of Gibson's millions, Grigorieva performed several operations

Childhood of Oksana Grigorieva

Oksana Petrovna Grigorieva was born in Saransk, Mordovian Autonomous Soviet Socialist Republic and at birth received the surname Chernukha. She has a younger sister, Natalya. Oksana's parents were professional musicians - teachers at a music school. From them Oksana inherited a love of music. Already at the age of three, the girl, under the guidance of her mother, began to learn to play the piano. As she got older, she went to study at a music school in Saransk. In 1990 she graduated from the Kazan State Conservatory.

Musical career of Oksana Grigorieva

After graduating from the conservatory, Oksana decided to connect her career with music and at the age of 20 she moved to London. In London, she continued her studies at the Royal College of Music and at the same time she taught music and worked as a nurse, caring for an elderly lady. Later she got a job as a waitress in a cafe, where she was noticed by the official photographer of the royal family and Prince Charles's cousin, Patrick Anson. The girl impressed him, and he invited her to try herself as a fashion model. Soon Oksana began to appear on the pages of fashion magazines. While working as a model, she changed her father's surname Chernukh to her mother's surname - Grigoriev.

In 1995, director Nikita Mikhalkov invited Oksana to work as a translator at the London Film Festival. There she made an acquaintance with the English actor Timothy Dalton, thanks to which in 1996 she starred in the low-budget film “A to Zen”, in the role of a Russian girl Katya. In 1997, the film was shown at the Edinburgh Film Festival. It is difficult to recognize the modern Grigorieva in this film, since she was filmed before she underwent several plastic surgeries and actually found a new face.

In 2005, Oksana Grigorieva moved to the United States, where she lived in New York and Los Angeles. She taught music and patented her own teaching method.

Excerpt characterizing Grigorieva, Oksana Petrovna

I couldn’t even imagine that he had been existing here like this for many, many years, suffering and “paying” his guilt, without any hope of leaving this terrifying “floor” even before the time came for him to return to the physical Earth!.. And there he will again have to start all over again, so that later, when his next “physical” life ends, he will return (perhaps here!) with a whole new “baggage”, bad or good, depending on how he will live his “next” earthly life... And he could not have any hope of freeing himself from this vicious circle (be it good or bad), since, having begun his earthly life, each person “dooms” himself to this endless, eternal circular “journey”... And, depending on his actions, returning to the “floors” can be very pleasant, or very scary... - And if you don’t kill in your new life, you won’t return to this “floor” again “Isn’t it true?” I asked hopefully. - So I don’t remember anything, dear, when I return there... It is after death that we remember our lives and our mistakes. And as soon as we return to live, the memory immediately closes. That’s why, apparently, all the old “deeds” are repeated, because we don’t remember our old mistakes... But, to be honest, even if I knew that I would be “punished” again for this, I still would never have stayed in side if my family suffered... or my country. All this is strange... If you think about it, the one who “distributes” our guilt and payment, as if he wants only cowards and traitors to grow on earth... Otherwise, he would not punish scoundrels and heroes equally. Or is there still some difference in punishment?.. In fairness, there should be. After all, there are heroes who have accomplished inhuman feats... Songs are then written about them for centuries, legends live about them... They certainly cannot be “settled” among simple murderers!.. It’s a pity, there is no one to ask... - I also think this can’t happen be! After all, there are people who performed miracles of human courage, and they, even after death, like the sun, illuminate the path for all those who survived for centuries. I really love reading about them, and I try to find as many books as possible that tell about human exploits. They help me live, help me cope with loneliness when it becomes too hard... The only thing I can’t understand is: why on Earth heroes always have to die so that people can see that they are right?.. And when the same hero is already it is impossible to resurrect, here everyone finally becomes indignant, human pride, which has been dormant for a long time, rises, and the crowd, burning with righteous anger, demolishes the “enemies” like specks of dust caught on their “right” path... - sincere indignation raged in me, and I said probably too fast and too much, but I rarely had the opportunity to talk about what “hurts”... and I continued. – After all, people first killed even their poor God, and only then began to pray to him. Is it really impossible to see the real truth even before it’s too late?.. Isn’t it better to save the same heroes, look up to them and learn from them?.. Do people always need a shock example of someone else’s courage so that they can believe in their own? ?.. Why is it necessary to kill, so that later you can erect a monument and glorify? Honestly, I would prefer to erect monuments to the living if they are worth it... What do you mean when you say that someone “distributes the blame”? Is this God or what?.. But it’s not God who punishes... We punish ourselves. And we ourselves are responsible for everything. “You don’t believe in God, dear?..” the sad man, who listened attentively to my “emotionally indignant” speech, was surprised. – I haven’t found him yet... But if he really exists, then he must be kind. And for some reason many people are afraid of him, they are afraid of him... At our school they say: “A man sounds proud!” How can a person be proud if fear hangs over him all the time?!.. And there are too many different gods - each country has its own. And everyone is trying to prove that theirs is the best... No, I still don’t understand a lot... But how can you believe in something without understanding?.. At school they teach that there is nothing after death... But what about can I believe this if I see something completely different?.. I think blind faith simply kills hope in people and increases fear. If they knew what was really going on, they would behave much more carefully... They would not care what happens next after their death. They would know that they would live again, and they would have to answer for the way they lived. Just not in front of the “terrible God”, of course... But in front of yourself. And no one will come to atone for their sins, but they will have to atone for their sins themselves... I wanted to tell someone about this, but no one wanted to listen to me. It’s probably much more convenient for everyone to live this way... And probably easier too,” I finally finished my “deadly long” speech. I suddenly felt very sad. Somehow, this man managed to get me to talk about what had been “gnawing” at me inside since the day when I first “touched” the world of the dead, and in my naivety I thought that people needed to “just tell, and they will They will immediately believe and even be happy!... And, of course, they will immediately want to do only good things...” How naive a child do you have to be for such a stupid and impossible dream to be born in your heart?!! People don't like to know that there is something else "out there" - after death. Because if you admit this, it means that they will have to answer for everything they have done. But this is exactly what no one wants... People are like children, for some reason they are sure that if they close their eyes and see nothing, then nothing bad will happen to them... Or they can blame everything on the strong shoulders of their own To God, who will “atone” all their sins for them, and then everything will be fine... But is this really right?.. I was just a ten-year-old girl, but even then many things did not fit into my simple, “childish” logical framework. In the book about God (the Bible), for example, it was said that pride is a great sin, and the same Christ (the son of man!!!) says that with his death he will atone for “all human sins”... What kind of Pride did you have to have in order to equate yourself to the entire human race taken together?!. And what kind of person would dare to think such a thing about himself?.. Son of God? Or the Son of Man?.. And the churches?!.. Each one more beautiful than the other. It’s as if the ancient architects tried very hard to “outdo” each other when building God’s house... Yes, churches really are incredibly beautiful, like museums. Each of them is a real work of art... But, if I understood correctly, a person went to church to talk with God, right? In that case, how could he find him in all that stunning, eye-catching gold luxury, which, for example, not only did not dispose me to open my heart, but, on the contrary, to close it as quickly as possible, so as not to see the same the bleeding, almost naked, brutally tortured God himself, crucified in the middle of all that shiny, sparkling, crushing gold, as if people were celebrating his death, and did not believe and did not rejoice at his life... Even in cemeteries, we all plant fresh flowers, so that they remind us of the life of the same dead. So why didn’t I see a statue of the living Christ in any church, to whom I could pray, talk to him, open my soul?.. And does the House of God mean only his death?.. Once I asked the priest, why don't we pray to the living God? He looked at me like I was an annoying fly and said that “this is so that we do not forget that he (God) gave his life for us, atoning for our sins, and now we must always remember that we are not his.” worthy (?!), and to repent of their sins as much as possible”... But if he has already redeemed them, then what should we repent of?.. And if we must repent, does that mean all this atonement is a lie? The priest got very angry and said that I had heretical thoughts and that I should atone for them by reading “Our Father” twenty times in the evening (!)... Comments, I think, are unnecessary...

Oksana Grigorieva and Mel Gibson: before official acquaintance

In 2006, Grigorieva wrote the song Un Dia Llegara, which was included in Josh Groban's album Awake. In 2009, she recorded the album Beautiful Heartache in collaboration with Charlie Midnight. The album's executive producer was Mel Gibson himself. The album consists of eleven songs, including: “Black Eyes”, the song Angel, written by Oksana in honor of her son Alexander, the song Say My Name, written together with Mel Gibson and included in the soundtrack to the film “Retribution”. The album Beautiful Heartache received good reviews from music critics.

Personal life of Oksana Grigorieva

Oksana Grigorieva's first husband was lawyer Igor Baranov, whom she married in 1989 while studying at the Kazan Conservatory. Their marriage lasted only three months.

After moving to the UK, Grigorieva married artist Nicholas Rowland in 1992, who was 19 years older than Oksana. Their marriage lasted until 1994.

While working as a translator for Nikita Mikhalkov, Oksana met actor Timothy Dalton, he became her third husband. On August 7, 1997, their son, Alexander, was born. This marriage also did not last long and broke up in 2005. According to rumors, the reason for the separation was Oksana’s affair with businessman Peter Blomkvist.

Having moved to the USA, Oksana Grigorieva met actor Mel Gibson during the filming of his new film. There are rumors that this acquaintance was not accidental, this was allegedly facilitated by the famous Russian pimp, owner of the marriage agency Pyotr Listerman. According to him, he met Oksana in the USA and she asked him to help arrange his personal life. Why did he introduce her to the set of the film in which Mel Gibson was starring and arranged for Grigorieva to write music for the film. Mel quickly fell for Oksana.

Whether this story is true or not, one can only guess. One way or another, Oksana Grigorieva began a romantic relationship with Mel Gibson. In 2006, they started dating; Mel Gibson at that time was still married to Robin Moore, but did not live with his wife. For the first time, Mel and Oksana appeared together in public at the premiere of the film “X-Men: Origins.” Wolverine". Later, information appeared in the press that Grigorieva was 4 months pregnant, after which Gibson’s wife, with whom he had been married for 28 years, filed for divorce. As a result of the divorce, she sued for most of her husband's fortune.

On October 30, 2009, Oksana Grigorieva gave birth to a daughter, Anna-Lucia, whose father is Mel Gibson. The relationship between Oksana and Mel did not work out; quarrels often occurred between them, which reached the point of assault on Mel’s part. As a result, they separated in April 2010, and in June Oksana contacted the police, saying that she had become a victim of violence. As a result of the investigation, it was established that in January, at Gibson’s house in Malibu, he punched Grigorieva twice in the face and knocked out her teeth, at that moment she had her daughter in her arms. At the hospital, Grigorieva was diagnosed with a concussion. Oksana provided audio recordings of Mel Gibson rudely insulting her and threatening to kill her and bury her in the garden.

A criminal case was opened against Gibson and, by court decision, he was prohibited from approaching Oksana Grigorieva and her daughter.

After a paternity test, Grigorieva and Gibson entered into an agreement according to which he must pay Oksana $10 million and pay $40 thousand every month until her daughter turns 18.

In March 2011, after another trial, Mel Gibson was sentenced to three years probation and a fine of $400. In the fall of the same year, Oksana demanded from him another half a million dollars in addition to what had already been paid, as compensation for the moral suffering of the child.

As a result of all these events, Oksana was on the verge of a nervous breakdown. She flew to Moscow and turned for help to the famous “star” psychologist Svetlana Belyaeva.

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