“Everything is like the first time”: Sogdiana about the birth of a child and a new marriage

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Oksana Vladimirovna Nechitailo

(born February 17, 1984, Tashkent, Uzbek SSR, USSR), better known under the stage name
Sogdiana
, is an Uzbek and Russian singer of Ukrainian ethnic origin[1], songwriter. People's Artist of the Chechen Republic (2009). Honored Artist of the Republic of Ingushetia (2018).

Biography

Sogdiana was born on February 17, 1984 in Tashkent. By nationality - Ukrainian[2]. Her father, Vladimir Nechitailo, is an engineer, and her mother, Larisa Fedorinskaya, is a medical worker by training. Her grandmother sang in the church choir.

Sogdiana graduated from a music school with a degree in piano. She also studied drawing, dancing and singing.

Sogdiana took part in many international and national competitions, and was often among the laureates. Mening Kunglim, was released in 2001.

(Russian: My Soul), including songs in Uzbek, Russian and English. In 2003, Sogdiana received the State Prize of Uzbekistan “Nihol”.

Since 2004, Sogdiana’s repertoire has included compositions in the Uzbek language “Mening Shahzodam” (Russian: My Prince), “Ovora Bo’lma” (Russian: Don’t Hope), “Netay” (Russian: What Should I Do), “Sen Kelma” (Russian: Don’t come) and “Yurak Mahzun” (Russian: Heart-magnet), for which video clips were also shot. Mening Shahzodam... Baribir Kelar was released soon

, in which these compositions were included.

In 2006, Sogdiana became a participant in the sixth season of the Star Factory talent show, whose music producer was Viktor Drobysh. At the end of the same year, the singer became the winner of the Golden Gramophone award for the first time with the Russian-language version of the song “Yurak Mahzun” - “Heart Magnet”.

In 2007, Sogdiana shot a video for the song “Blue Sky” and began work on her first Russian album. After some time, for the song “Blue Sky,” Sogdiana received a second Golden Gramophone statuette and became a laureate of the “New Songs about the Main Thing” television festival. She was also awarded the Moscow City Hall “Pilar” prize for her contribution to the development of Russian popular music.

On February 14, 2008, Sogdiana’s first Russian album “Heart is a Magnet” was released[3].

In 2009, Sogdiana was awarded the title of People's Artist of the Chechen Republic. Video clips for the songs “Remember Me” and “East of Eden” were filmed and presented. Soon the singer received the Golden Gramophone figurine for the song “East of Eden.”

In April 2010, the premiere of the song and video “With or without you” took place. On January 30, 2011, Sogdiana’s second Russian album, entitled “Eden,” was released. Soon a new single, “Just Don’t Be Silent,” was released, which was later included in the limited reissue of the album “Eden.”

In 2014, after a three-year break, Sogdiana returned to the stage with a video for the song “Lightning”. In 2020, the singer presented a Russian-language version of the song “Mening Shahzodam” called “Epidemic”, shot a video for the song “Bird Without a Wing”, and also performed at the 20th anniversary ceremony of the Golden Gramophone, performing the hit “Heart Magnet”.

In February 2020, the premiere of a joint video with Abraham Russo for the song “No Impossible” took place.

Since January 2020, Sogdiana has been with the Goldenlook Management Company label.

In February 2020, the premiere of the song “Be with me” took place.

In May of the same year, the premiere of the song “With You” took place.

Sogdiana

Sogdiana was born on February 17, 1984

years in Tashkent.
Her parents had nothing to do with music: her mother, Larisa Fedorinskaya,
is a medical worker by training, and her father,
Vladimir Nechitailo
, is an engineer.
Only my grandmother once sang in the church choir. But, despite this, young Sogdiana’s love for music manifested itself quite early. She grew up as a creative child: from childhood she painted, sang, danced and organized mini-concerts for relatives and guests. Her parents noticed their daughter’s talent in time and sent her to a special music school, where she studied piano for 11 years. A great future was predicted for the young pianist, but she herself felt that she wanted something more. Even the most virtuoso performance of etudes by famous composers cannot replace one’s own creativity. Therefore, in addition to the piano, she began to study vocals from the 8th grade. Now the girl knew exactly what her heart was striving for... from that moment the story of the rising pop star Sogdiana began. Sogdiana took part in many International and Republican competitions (“Sado 99” - Uzbekistan, “Aziz Ona-Yurtim navolari” - Uzbekistan, “Path to the Stars” - St. Petersburg, “Discovery” - Bulgaria, “Canconi dal mondo” - Italy and many others) and was invariably among the laureates. But a real singer cannot live on competitions and honorary diplomas alone, so Sogdiana began working on recording her own compositions, slowly but surely, selecting material for her debut album. The disc “Mening Kunglim” (“My Soul”) was released in 2001
.
Soon she entered the State Conservatory of Uzbekistan at the pop vocal department. Sogdiana is sure that every job should be done by a professional. And this attitude in life attracts many to her. As the MK-Sunday correspondent will later write. Ulyana Kalashnikova: “They say that you can’t be smart and beautiful at the same time.
to “Star Factory-6” graduate Sogdiana.
Before joining the project, the long-legged brunette managed to receive a Higher Music Education, which, as you know, is rare in modern show business.” In 2003
, Sogdiana received the highest youth award in Uzbekistan - the State Prize
"Nikhol"
, which means
"Rostock"
.
This was already a real recognition! This means that it opened the way for this singer’s talent to reach millions of listeners. It was this year that she participated in the Path to the Stars
, held in St. Petersburg and returned as a prize winner.
The singer’s career is rapidly gaining momentum - video clips are being filmed, a second, much more successful album, “Mening Shahzodam... Baribir Kelar!” is being released. Filming the video “Netay”, 09.28.2005 Video “Netay” Filming the video “Yurak Mahzun” Video “Yurak Mahzun”
In
2005,
she participated in the 15th International Pop Music Festival
“Discovery”
, held in
Bulgaria
in the city of
Varna
and took
second place
.
As a result of the competition, Sogdiana received an invitation to the Canzoni dal Mondo festival.
On the first day of the festival, the song “Yurak Makhzun”, arranged by Ravil Gimazutdinov, was awarded the nomination
“Best Arrangement”
.
On the second, Sogdiana was awarded the nomination “Best Singer.”
In
2006,
the rising star of the East was also noticed in Russia - Sogdiana became one of the participants in
“Star Factory-6”
.
And even though she didn’t win the project, she found the key to the hearts of Russian listeners with her heartfelt song “Heart Magnet”
.
Her charisma, sincerity and bewitching, alluring gaze bewitch her fans! And even venerable journalists: “maybe the artist wanted more mystery, or maybe she felt the call of distant ancestors and is fulfilling the mission of an ambassador of other cultures.
Or maybe he just dreams about it, attracting our ears with his dream and his sincere heart, like a magnet .
This review of Sogdiana’s debut was written in the newspaper “Evening Moscow”. "Star Factory-6", 2006 1st nomination of Sogdiana - song “Heart Magnet” “Heart Magnet”.
Star Factory-6 After graduating from the Star Factory, she went with all its participants on long tours throughout Russia and the CIS countries.
By that time, Sogdiana had become a folk heroine not only in her homeland, but also won the hearts of fans all over the world. Two films with her participation, “Khoja Nasreddin”
and
“Sogdiana,”
, and at her solo concerts in Tashkent the apple had nowhere to fall.
Even three days in a four-thousand-person hall was not enough for everyone to be able to listen and see the colorful show of their favorite singer live. Recital in Tashkent, 2006.
In the same year, the girl won one of the most prestigious awards on the Russian stage.
Sogdiana took the stage at the State Kremlin Palace and received her first, but not last, Golden Gramophone
for the mega-hit
“Heart Magnet”. "Heart magnet." Golden Gramophone “Golden Gramophone”, 11/26/2006 Film “Khoja Nasreddin: the game begins” Film “Sogdiana”, 2006
In
2007
, Sogdiana shot a video for the song
“Blue Sky”
and began work on her first Russian album.
Filming of the video “Blue Sky”, 2007. Video “Blue Sky”
So, just 3 weeks after the birth of her first child, son Arjun, she already performed at the Golden Gramophone.
Sogdiana received the second prestigious statuette for the song “Blue Sky”. In the same year, she was awarded the Moscow City Hall “Pilar”
for her contribution to the development of Russian popular music.
On February 14, 2008
, Sogdiana’s first Russian album (and the 3rd in a row)
“Heart Magnet”
.
And now the third song from this album achieves success and recognition. At this time, the composition “Catch Up with the Wind”
was played on all radio stations.
The singer continues to work actively, and already in August begins filming a new video for the song
.
” In October, Sogdiana's family life began to crack. The press began to receive information that Sogdiana and her husband would separate due to numerous misunderstandings, scandals and quarrels. At the end of November, Sogdiana receives its third “Golden Gramophone”
for the song
“Catch Up with the Wind”
.
“Golden Gramophone”, 11/29/2008. On December 31,
Sogdiana’s husband kidnapped his son Arjun and took him to his homeland - India.
Catch the Wind (Golden Gramophone 2008) With her son Arjun
In
2009
, Sogdiana shoots 3 new videos: “Remember Me”, “East of Eden” and “With or without you”.
As Sogdiana says, she dedicated the song “Remember Me” to her son Arjun. September 27, 2009
Sogdiana marries the owner of the Lynx hockey club, Bashir Kushtov.
On March 22, 2010,
they
had a son
, whom they named Mikail.
With her husband Bashir and newborn son Mikail at discharge on March 27
_______________________________________________________________________ You can see more details about Sogdiana’s 1st and 2nd weddings in the
post by ksenchik
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Achievements

• 1998 - received the title of laureate at the Republican Competition for Young Pianists.
• 1999 - laureate of the Uzbek television festival of pop songs of professional performers "SADO-99".
• 2002 - laureate of the first Republican competition of pop singers “Melodies of My Land”.
• 2003 - laureate of the International Pop Song Performers Competition “Path to the Stars” (St. Petersburg, Russia).
• 2003 - laureate of the State Prize for especially gifted youth “Nihol” 2003 (Tashkent, Uzbekistan).
• 2005 - laureate of the International Pop Song Performers Competition "Discovery" (Varna, Bulgaria).
• 2005 - laureate of the International Pop Song Performers Competition “Canzoni Dal Mondo” (Italy).
• 2006 - winner of the Golden Gramophone award for the song “Heart Magnet”[4].
• 2007 - winner of the Golden Gramophone award for the song “Blue Sky”[5].
• 2007 - laureate of the Pilar Prize
• 2008 - winner of the Golden Gramophone award for the song “Catch Up with the Wind”[6].
• 2009 - Title of People's Artist of the Chechen Republic.
• 2010 — Winner of the “God of the Air” award in the category “Radio Favorite Performer”
• 2010 - winner of the Golden Gramophone award for the song “To the East of Eden.”
• 2015 - winner of the Golden Gramophone award for the song “Heart Magnet”.
• 2018 - Title of Honored Artist of the Republic of Ingushetia.

Fame

In 2001, Oksana released her debut solo album. It included songs recorded in different languages. She performed for several more years under her real name and surname until she came up with a worthy pseudonym, with which she debuted at the New Wave festival.

In 2006, Sogdiana decided to win a huge audience when she took part in the new season of “Star Factory,” which was supervised by Viktor Drobysh. For a long time he did not agree to her performing under her usual pseudonym, since they considered it too difficult for the audience. However, as time has shown, the organizers worried in vain, since Sogdiana was able to fall in love with a huge number of spectators who remembered his name without any problems.

Despite the fact that Sogdiana could not win the competition, she managed to impress and be remembered by the audience. She superbly performed the song “Heart Magnet”, for which a few months later she received the Golden Gramophone Award. After that, she managed to star in a movie, the name of which was specially changed for her.

Then Sogdiana’s career only went up. She, along with the rest of the “manufacturers”, traveled all over the country with concerts, after which she managed to release a second album and receive another “Golden Gramophone”. At the moment, the singer’s career is developing no less dynamically. She does not forget to delight fans with new videos and hits.

Videography

Sogdiana broke up with the president of the hockey club

The singer and businessman reached an agreement on raising their son

The singer and businessman reached an agreement on raising their son

A graduate of “Star Factory-6” Oksana NECHITAILO, popularly known as Sogdiana, left the stage two years ago and went to Uzbekistan. It would seem that the peak of the oriental beauty’s popularity is behind us. However, two months ago the artist returned to Moscow, announcing herself with the new hit “Molniya”.

Bleached strands, daring makeup and European style - Sogdiana no longer wants to be a “modest oriental beauty.” We asked Sogdiana herself about the reasons for the metamorphoses.

“I took care of children in Tashkent for two years,” said the singer. — Since I had not seen my eldest son Arjun for a long time, I was catching up. I have children from different marriages, so I made a lot of effort to make them feel like brothers.

from her first husband, Hindu Ram Govind , five years ago. The ex-husband did not want to give up his son. On December 31, 2009, the singer’s father was attacked by two masked people: unknown persons stole the baby from a stroller.

“The separation from Arjun was a tragedy,” Sogdiana admits. “I cried all the time, my heart was breaking from unbearable pain. I haven’t seen my son for two and a half years...

At first, son Arjun lived in his father’s homeland of India, then they moved to Tashkent, where Ram Govind has been doing business for the last 15 years. By the way, the former spouses met there - the singer grew up in Uzbekistan.

“Today I understand Ram,” says the artist. — Arjun is his only son. My ex-husband and I managed to come to an agreement. We went through a period of hostility and understood important things.

— Having divorced Ram, you married again a man of eastern blood - the president of the Podolsk hockey club "Lynx" Bashir Kushtov.

“At first it seemed to me that faith did not play a decisive role.
But due to different mentalities, Bashir and I began to have disagreements. In 2011, we divorced, and I left for Tashkent. I won’t repeat the mistake again: I won’t marry a man with different views! Although I have Eastern humility in me, I am patient only for the time being. I am Orthodox, the children have the faith of their fathers: Buddhism and Islam. I realized that it is better not to argue with husbands on the issue of religion. The main thing is that the little sons grow up to be worthy people. Well, with my second husband Bashir, we are different people. Our mistake was that we wanted to change each other. Initially, you need to choose a person who suits you in everything. — Did Bashir cheat on you?

“He had frequent business trips, and if he cheated, I still wouldn’t have known... But I don’t regret anything: I’m 30 years old, and I have two wonderful boys.”

— During the divorce, did you divide the property?

- There is nothing to share. Bashir was rich even before we met; all his property was purchased before the wedding. The main thing is that the child is with me, Bashir pays me child support. I don’t limit his communication with his son: he sees Mikail whenever he wants. He is only four years old, but he already attends a mini-center at the English gymnasium. Can count and speak English.

Afraid of anesthesia

— Fathers are businessmen, mother is an artist. Whose genes did the children inherit?

— Children love to dance and sing, but so far I don’t see any special talents in them.

— Did they notice your vocal abilities early?

— Despite the fact that I performed at school events, I was not considered a star among my classmates. I was teased more often than praised. Until the sixth grade, it was not easy: I stood out for my tall stature, for which I often found myself at the center of ridicule. Sometimes she ran home and bawled, locking herself in her room.

In ninth grade, I was invited to a modeling agency, and a “scout” found me on the market. At first I refused him, then, tired of annoying calls, I came to the casting. There was a woman sitting in the hall who apparently knew me as a singer. She muttered with an arrogant look: “What, are you tired of singing?” After passing three selections, I remained among the applicants for training at a modeling school. But when they named the price of training, I had nothing to pay. I offered a barter: they teach how to walk and maintain posture correctly, and I sing for free at all events. Did not work out.

— The profession of a singer involves frequent filming, sometimes very frank...

— I categorically refuse such photo sessions. The image of an oriental chaste girl does not fit in with men's publications. Even if they offer you a million dollars, I will refuse.

- But what about “pump up my lips, enlarge my breasts - I’ll be beautiful, and not somehow”? “I admire it when girls fight aging.” I’m a terrible coward in this regard, because I’m afraid of anesthesia. It seems to me that I will fall asleep and not wake up. The fact is that at the age of eight I watched the film “Coma” with actor Michael Douglas , in which people are euthanized and chopped up for organs.
Since then I have had fear. When I became pregnant with my second son, the doctors decided to have a Caesarean section on me. I demanded that they give me only local anesthesia. During the operation, I heard everything... I don’t go on diets either: I’m lucky with my physiology. My weight is 58 kilograms and my height is 175 centimeters. — Is it difficult to promote songs without a producer?

— I have always worked for myself. During the “Star Factory” we had Viktor Drobysh , but she made further decisions regarding the choice of songs and concert images independently.

— Has your beloved man appeared?

“I haven’t met a new love yet, now I’m devoting time to my sons and being creative.”

Notes

1. Singer Sogdiana: I am grateful to the fathers of my sons (Russian), Mir24
   . Retrieved August 13, 2020.
2. Singer Sogdiana: I am grateful to the fathers of my sons (Russian), Mir24
   . Retrieved August 13, 2020.
3. About me - Sogdiana
4. Golden Gramophone 2006 (unspecified)
   . goldengramophone.ru. Retrieved January 11, 2011. Archived March 11, 2012.
5. Golden Gramophone 2007 (unspecified)
   . goldengramophone.ru. Retrieved January 11, 2011. Archived March 11, 2012.
6. Golden Gramophone 2008 (unspecified)
   . goldengramophone.ru. Retrieved January 11, 2011. Archived March 11, 2012.

Stars from A to Z

An oriental beauty with Ukrainian roots, Oksana Nechitailo quickly entered the world of show business and managed to capture the hearts of fans with her hits “Heart Magnet”, “Cities of Love”, “Remember Me” and others, but difficulties began in the singer’s life.

Oksana’s creative career began as if in a fairy tale; Sogdiana’s husband, the owner of cement factories from India, Ram Govind, spared no expense on expensive clothes, recreation and entertainment. Sogdiana, a singer who by that time had a higher musical education and success with fans, was not only busy with work, but also preparing for the birth of her first child. Life was in full swing - after Star Factory-6, she was noticed by producer Viktor Drobysh and numerous tours, performances and concerts began. But the collaboration with Drobysh did not last long, because during Sogdiana’s stay on the Star Factory-6 project, she met her future husband Ram. He comes from India, but has his own business in Tashkent and permanently lives in Moscow, as a person of Eastern customs, Ram Govind did not really like that Drobysh was managing the singer’s life and he suggested that Sogdiana leave the producer.

Soon after the proposal for cooperation, a marriage proposal was received from the millionaire Govind. Sogdiana, who could not imagine her life without the attentive and gentle Ram, naturally agreed to become his wife. The couple’s wedding was unusual; they refused a pompous banquet and, after a visit to one of the Moscow registry offices, secretly went to Malaysia to conduct a wedding ceremony according to Indian canons. There were no relatives or friends of the couple at the exotic ceremony, and Sogdiana and her husband purchased traditional wedding clothes for the bride and groom the day before the ceremony right in Malaysia. The singer doesn’t really like to remember the celebration because of subsequent events, she only remembers that everything was very mysterious, incomprehensible and a little scary, but her beloved husband supported Sogdiana, because Eastern traditions are new to her. As Sogdiana recalls, photos with her husband appeared in her family album only after the traditional Eastern wedding ceremony; even in the Moscow registry office there was no photographer, because according to Indian customs, a guy and a girl should not be photographed together before the wedding.

After the wedding, the couple returned to Moscow and began to live in a new apartment, which was specially purchased for family life. Sogdiana was very interested in the process of home improvement, constantly buying all sorts of little things to create an atmosphere of comfort and warmth. Soon Oksana Nechitailo found out that she was expecting a child, naturally, it was a joyful event, but she had to leave her favorite job, concerts were very difficult for Sogdiana. After the birth of her son, Ram Godwin suggested that the singer give up her career and focus only on the house and raising the child, but Sogdiana was categorically against this and scandals began in the family, and soon a divorce.

But the worst thing for the singer happened a few weeks after the divorce proceedings, her ex-husband stole baby Arjun and secretly took him to his homeland in India. For more than a year, Sogdiana did not even know about the whereabouts of her son and was constantly searching for him.

It was at this very difficult moment for the singer’s life that a man appeared who helped her muffle the pain of parting with her child; he became the 47-year-old president of the Lynx hockey club, Bashir Kushtov. He helped Sogdiana a lot, not only financially, but also became support and support in the search for the missing Arzhdun. However, soon the singer’s first husband Ram Govind contacted his ex, said that he had moved their common son to Tashkent and allowed the mother to meet the child. Now the singer has the opportunity to visit her eldest son and sometimes takes him to Moscow so that he can see more often not only his mother, but also his younger brother Mikail.

The singer accepted the marriage proposal from Bashir without fear that the situation could repeat itself again, because both of her chosen ones are people of Eastern morals. In numerous interviews, Sogdiana claimed that they immediately stipulated the fact that she would not stop performing on stage and Bashir fully supported her in her desire to realize her career. The wedding of the singer and the president of the hockey club, unlike the first, was eventful and luxurious. The singer only started sewing the dress 4 months before the wedding. For the sake of Sogdiana’s order, the famous Moscow fashion designer Nadezhda Slavina even suspended the process of preparing for Fashion Week in Moscow, and as a result of painstaking work, the wedding outfit turned out amazing.

Sogdiana, whose wedding photo was on the front pages of online publications, amazed everyone with a luxurious fluffy dress made of the finest silk with handmade lace. This dress has its own story: according to the contract, none of the seamstresses of Nadezhda Slavina’s fashion house had the right to disclose the style, fabric or color, while the singer herself puzzled everyone by declaring that the outfit would be green. Actually, the dress that took so much time to sew was not green, rather turquoise, and even then only the lower tier was dark, the trim was shining white, and the outfit itself was decorated with hundreds of Swarovski crystals.

But, unfortunately, the expensive wedding once again did not bring family happiness to the singer. Remembering the agreement not to interfere with her career, the jealous husband made every effort so that Sogdiana would leave the stage herself. As the singer recalls, her husband assigned two bodyguards to her, who were supposed to not only control her every step, but also immediately report everything to Bashir. All innocent kisses on the cheek when meeting colleagues at home became the reason for terrible scenes of jealousy and scandals, so soon after the birth of her second child, Sogdiana divorced her husband.

It is interesting that now the lonely singer has her own profile on the Instagram network, where she, under the nickname sogdiana music, publishes photos with her children during visits to museums and exhibitions, the singer does her best to fill the gap in communication with her eldest son.

Sogdiana’s life can hardly be called simple; in her 30 years, the singer has gone through two divorces, but there is also a positive side to her marriages - two sons, in whom she dotes and tries to spend as much time as possible together, visiting exhibitions, museums and children’s cafes.

“Everything is like the first time”: Sogdiana about the birth of a child and a new marriage

After her divorce from her first husband, singer Sogdiana did not see her eldest son for two and a half years: the baby lived with his father in Tashkent. Then Sogdiana, taking a break in her career, went to her firstborn. Now the boy still lives with his dad, goes to school there, but often sees his mother.

From her first husband, entrepreneur Ram Govind, Sogdiana has an eldest son, Arjun, who turned eleven in October. She gave birth to Mikail from businessman Bashir Kushtov.

In her second marriage, the husband was too protective of the woman: she could not leave the house without guards. The feeling of lack of freedom and excessive guardianship led to divorce. But the couple broke up in a civilized manner, without reproaches. Sogdiana speaks with respect about her ex-husbands. And she admits: only in her third marriage did she finally find harmony.

– Sogdiana, congratulations on the birth of your baby! For the third time, do you feel like an experienced mother or everything like the first time?

– Now every mother who has given birth more than once will understand me... Everything is like the first time. Honestly, it was very scary and exciting. But for the birth of the baby, we bought and arranged everything in advance.

– Have you already decided when you will return from maternity leave?

“But I didn’t stop working.” The doctor did not limit me either in flights or in exercise - everything was in moderation. She starred in the video for the song “Lovi” in her seventh month, and 10 days before giving birth she was in the Caucasus performing. The birth itself actually found me filming.

– How did your sons react to the addition of another brother? Are they jealous?

– On the contrary, the news was received with joy! After all, a younger brother is a new like-minded person and lifelong friend.

– After the second birth you gained 30 kg, after the third - by 19 kg. Is it important for you now to return to your prenatal weight as quickly as possible?

- Yes, very much so. Both as a woman and because I am a public person. After the first and second births it was quite easy. We'll see how it goes now... Women's metabolism changes every year.

Strict diets are not my story at all. Restrictions - yes, in sweets and flour. And of course, sports.

– By the way, I didn’t see a single photo in a swimsuit on your social networks. Is this your principled position?

– Yes, of course, this is both my Eastern upbringing and my position in life. I want to carry other values. I want people to look for and discover in a woman not the beauty of a naked body, but the beauty of her facial features, grace, depth, and wisdom. But on stage I can afford to wear a dress with a beautiful neckline or cutout on the back. I have outfits that highlight my legs.

– Nothing is known about your third spouse except his name. Apparently, Maxim is not an oriental man?

– Maxim is not an oriental man. But the main thing is that he is a real man. The one who accepts my profession cares and loves the family. I do not carry the burden of the past into the present and future. I always remember mistakes and try not to repeat them.

I am grateful for everything in my life. And if we don’t match with someone, it doesn’t mean that one of us is bad... You just need to find someone with whom you can live, breathe, love, create... And this doesn’t always happen the first time... I got it from the third. Now I live in harmony!

– Did you have a third wedding? Does the attitude towards the ceremony change when children appear and you have experience under your belt?

– I like wedding ceremonies - this is also part of any culture. We had a modest but traditional wedding with family - with a white dress, a bouquet and photographs as a keepsake.

Marina Serdyuk

Personal life of Sogdiana

In February 2007, Sogdiana met Indian businessman Ram Govind: “I sang at his birthday in Tashkent. He is simply wonderful, the best!” Soon the couple tied the knot, and in October the singer gave birth to her first child, Arjun. The public compared their couple with Aishwarya Rai and Abhishek Bachchan, but Ram turned out to be a real tyrant: he made scandals for his young wife every day, forbade her to perform and communicate with colleagues: “How will my wife sing for money? What will they say about me? Why can’t I provide for her?”

Sogdiana and Ram Govinda could not share their son. Sogdiana was the first to propose separation, her husband agreed, but during the divorce proceedings he managed to take Arjun to India. The singer saw her son only three years later, when Ram returned to Tashkent.

Sogdiana and her eldest son Arjun During that difficult period, the star met Bashir Kushtov, the president of the Lynx hockey club.

Sogdiana and Bashir KushtovHe became her support, and seven months after they met, in September 2009, the singer again put on a wedding dress. In 2010, the couple had a son, Mikhail, who became Bashir’s tenth child.

Sogdiana and her second husband with children from a previous marriage. But in the spring of 2014, Sogdiana and Kushtov divorced. The reason was again the pathological jealousy of the spouse. Since then, Sogdiana has repeatedly stated that she will not marry again. Although the singer lived in the East for a long time, she does not intend to tolerate the antics of crazy tyrants.