21-year-old Eva Tsekalo. What Lolita Milyavskaya’s only daughter looks like today
Lolita Milyavskaya married five times, but she has only one daughter, Eva. Now the girl is already 21 years old. The star mother does not often spoil her followers with pictures of Eva on social networks, but sometimes she still posts photos of her heiress. The artist tries to protect the girl from public attention and refutes annoying rumors that Eva suffers from autism.
Birth of a daughter
Eva was born in 1998. Almost immediately after her birth, Milyavskaya and Tsekalo, who was her husband at that time, divorced. At first, Lolita Milyavskaya did not raise the issue of paternity in the press, but after the breakup she publicly stated that Eva had nothing to do with Tsekalo. However, the artist still left the sonorous surname of her ex-husband to her daughter.
The child was born prematurely when the singer was six months pregnant. It was this reason that influenced the fact that the baby had developmental delays.
@lolitamilyavskaya According to the singer herself, doctors advised her to immediately abandon the baby. For a long time, Milyavskaya reproached the doctors who observed her for complete incompetence, declaring that her daughter had no abnormalities.
“She’s two hundred kilos. Delays are inevitable. But the doctor told me: give it up until you get used to it.” But the singer directed all her efforts to provide the baby with complete comfort and prove that Eva is the most ordinary child.
Milyavskaya said that one world-famous professor finally calmed her down. He supported the baby in his arms, put her back in the cradle, and then told the singer that everything was fine with her child.
Serious diagnosis
At some point, Milyavskaya stopped mentioning her daughter in numerous interviews. She explained her position this way: “I’m tired of having to prove that a premature baby is not autistic.”
But later, in Boris Korchevnikov’s program, she admitted that her daughter did have health problems: “Yes, we had developmental delays.”
@lolitamilyavskaya Eva was a hyper-shy child; she has poor eyesight, which is why the girl cannot do without thick glasses. Lolita does not hide the fact that her daughter could easily have been offended by other children at school.
Study abroad
Despite the fact that Eva spent her entire childhood in Ukraine with her grandmother, while Milyavskaya was actively building her career, the star mother did not forget about her daughter: she visited and regularly sent money.
In 2020, Milyavskaya moved her loved ones to the capital. She does not hide the fact that at one time she sought help from a psychologist in order to properly take care of her daughter.
Milyavskaya is sure that her Eva has a great ability for languages: “She knows English very well.” The singer added that her daughter also studied German, and also mastered French on her own. Her daughter also speaks Ukrainian so as not to forget the language. Milyavskaya herself insists on this.
At first, the singer wanted to send her daughter to study in London, but then settled on one of the universities in Warsaw. According to Milyavskaya, Eva mastered the Polish language in one month.
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Eva now
Since 2014, Eva began to appear in public more often with her mother. She gave an interview for the “Tonight” program in honor of Milyavskaya’s 51st birthday. Congratulating the artist, the girl emphasized that her mother is her guardian angel.
Eva showed her room, where there is a lot of literature and music CDs: “Mommy gives me a lot of books.” The girl said that she has her own hobbies. In the end, she admitted that she dreams of becoming a musician.
In 2020, Eva and her mother appeared on the catwalk as a model.
@lolitamilyavskaya When the girl turned 21, Milyavskaya wrote a celebratory post where she reminded her of her love: “To my Eve today Already!)))... No, stay small, not spoiled by adult tricks! Scan people like you did). Have your own independent opinion! Correct me when I'm wrong! Learn with pleasure! The main thing is, know and remember that I love you always and just like that!”
When fans asked why Milyavskaya was not with her daughter on such an important day, the singer said that she was on tour in Siberia.
Alexander Tsekalo forgot about his daughter from Lolita
Twelve years ago, one of the brightest duets on the stage, the cabaret duet “Academy,” broke up. Alexander Tsekalo began producing, Lolita began to pursue a solo career. In addition to concert recordings and a dozen joint hits, Lolita and Sasha also have a common child, daughter Eva. Lolita dreamed of a child from Alexander Tsekalo from the first day of their life together. However, the birth of a child was not part of Tsekalo’s plans: he dreamed of fame and popularity. When, ten years after the founding of the duo, Milyavskaya found out about her pregnancy, her happiness knew no bounds. However, Alexander reacted coolly to this news. Conflicts began in the family. Tsekalo and Milyavskaya decided to separate.
After the divorce, Lola became seriously ill and spent several months in the hospital. All this time, her daughter Eva was with the singer’s mother, who lives in Kyiv. Some time after Eva’s birth, reports began to appear in the press that the girl had autism. Allegedly, doctors diagnosed her with Down syndrome. Lolita never tired of denying this information. And the singer’s fans came to the conclusion: the father does not communicate with the child precisely because of his illness, he is afraid of responsibility.
Lolita with her daughter At a recent press conference, when asked directly by a Zheltaya Gazeta correspondent whether he was communicating with his daughter Eva, Alexander Tsekalo shook his head negatively. And then he complained that their relationship did not work out from the very beginning. Judging by the intonation with which the words were spoken, this situation does not bother him much. Lolita herself does not hide: Tsekalo never had anything to do with Eva’s upbringing. Although Eva was always happy to talk with her father. When the girl was still very little, she was always waiting for his call...
“Eva knows very well who her dad is,” the singer admitted in a telephone conversation. “I’m raising her normally.” When a daughter sees Tsekalo on TV, she naturally understands that this is her father. Of course, she records that some have a dad, some don’t. But she doesn’t bring up this topic at home. Perhaps because she grows up in a family where she is surrounded by love. If in the first years of Eva’s life Alexander called her at least occasionally, now he has stopped communicating with her completely. Lolita herself no longer remembers the last time this happened. Several times she called Alexander herself so that he could talk to her daughter. But then I stopped doing this.
“I even asked a couple of times: “Sasha, please congratulate Eva on her birthday,” says Lolita. – We must give him credit, he immediately called back and congratulated. When I stopped reminding him, he stopped calling completely. Once, when Eva was four years old, she asked me why dad didn’t congratulate her on her birthday. I explained that he was very busy, that he had a lot of work. Sasha is an adult and lives the way he wants. Deep down, I have no hope that he will begin to communicate with his daughter. This is a person’s choice, and it is impossible to influence it. The fact that I will force him to communicate with Eve against his wishes will only cause harm. Now he has his own family, God grant him happiness and love. I have no complaints about him and, I hope, Eva does too.
Alexander Tsekalo with his wife Lolita came to terms with the fact that Tsekalo actually abandoned his daughter. She is raising the girl on her own. As before, her mother helps her. And the girl’s father is actually replaced by Lolita’s current husband, Dmitry. “She calls Dima not daddy, but Dima,” Lolita warns the question. – We are all happy with this. We don’t insist that she call anyone dad. When she herself wants it, then it’s a different matter. By the way, they immediately found a common language with Dima, which I am incredibly happy about.
Lolita with her husband
The grown-up daughter of Lolita Milyavskaya will build her life in Europe
We all know that the well-known Lolita Milyavskaya has an adult daughter, Eva, who is already twenty years old. When the girl appeared in the world, there were many rumors and speculations that she had autism. However, the singer herself has already denied these rumors many times, and recently simply admitted that Eva does not suffer from any illness, she is simply quite shy and shy in communication.
Eve's biological father still remains a mystery. And even though she bears the surname of Lolita’s third husband, she has repeatedly asserted that this is not her biological parent, since at that time of their relationship both spouses were seen to be unfaithful.
But the birth was quite painful, it began prematurely, so at that time the girl was considered premature and they even offered the mother the most terrible thing that could be offered - to leave the girl in the maternity hospital and abandon her. Not a single mother, including our singer, could agree to this. Having set herself the goal of having a girl, the woman was able to achieve this goal. And even though they were not discharged from the hospital soon, Eva could already drink milk and was slowly gaining weight.
As Lolita herself admits, one of the doctors actually diagnosed the girl with autism. However, when they turned to another pediatrician, the following became clear: the girl’s characteristics are just a natural manifestation of qualities for a child who was born earlier than the specified period. And this shyness, which developed in her over several years, did not allow her to make friends, and therefore the girl did not need to participate in social networks. And this explains why Eva is not on any social network today.
Lolita also emphasizes that her daughter does not use tobacco products or alcohol, as she considers it a rare “nasty thing.” And one can only envy her endurance.
Even though Eva saw her mother more often only on the TV screen, and her grandmother was mostly involved in her upbringing, the artist confidently says that her girl was obedient. They didn't raise their voices at her. The child grew up quite calm and not problematic. Now they live in Kyiv, and since the singer is prohibited from entering there, they see each other very rarely, which upsets Lolita very much.
Now the girl herself has big plans for the future - she is going to graduate from the University of Warsaw and receive a degree in philology. She will live alone in Poland, but Lolita Milyavskaya has no doubts about her, since she is sure that her daughter is, in principle, ready for a separate and independent life.
Lolita about her daughter: “She doesn’t have autism, it’s a consequence of prematurity”
Lolita Milyavskaya // Photo: Instagram
Singer Lolita is trying to do everything in her power for the happiness of her daughter. The artist believes that Eva should not repeat her mistakes. As Milyavskaya admitted in Yulia Menshova’s program “Alone with Everyone,” for most of her life she suffered from dislike. According to the star, her parents did not pay enough attention to her as a child. It took the artist many years to somehow forget these grievances.
Lolita turned to a spiritual center, where they convinced her that she needed to forgive her parents. However, only a year later, step by step, attending meditation, she was able to let go of all the negativity.
“I raped myself, I didn’t understand why. It was easier to break off the relationship and not communicate. But this is impossible,” admitted Milyavskaya.
Lolita Milyavskaya in the program “Alone with Everyone” // Photo: Still from the program
According to Lolita, “loved children” are very happy, they will never have complexes or worry. In communicating with her heiress, she tries to maintain balance.
“Eva will grow up in what I was more than given short of. In a verbal sense. Yes, I don’t have Marilyn Monroe growing up, she’s not a model, but I tell her all the time that she is beautiful, good, smart. We agreed with my mother that she would receive what I did not receive. Now they also treat me more carefully,” admitted Lolita.
There were a lot of rumors on the Internet about the artist’s daughter. It was rumored that Eva was lagging behind her peers in her development. However, Lolita does not believe that her child is any different from the others. Moreover, soon Eva, who lives with her grandmother in Ukraine, will come to Moscow to enroll in a university.
“I tell her that I would give everything if in my next life I got married successfully for the first time and for the rest of my life, so that I could not work hard for my own maintenance or for the maintenance of my family. My child had severe delays, because she weighed 1200 grams after birth. What was not attributed to us. It’s the evil people on the Internet who endlessly torment me with autism. She does not have autism, it is a consequence of prematurity... If I had given up on everything, sat on my butt and been only with the child... It is very expensive to raise children when there is a problem. I’m glad I was able to do this,” noted the artist.
Lolita is grateful to her mother for helping her take care of Eva. According to the star, she has no feeling of guilt before the heiress. “I got rid of this complex, read smart books, listened to smart people. She respects me because she watched concerts behind the scenes and saw how I work,” said Milyavskaya.
The singer claims that her daughter knows how much she loves her. However, the celebrity is trying to raise Eva in strictness. A trusting relationship was established between them. However, so far the star has no idea how she will live with the heiress in Moscow. “I’ve lost the habit of having a child. She has been with her mother since she was two years old. I was always like “dad,” admitted Lolita.
"That's all love is." Complexes, correspondence and scandals - Lolita’s five marriages are behind her
Lolita announced her separation from her husband in July. She wrote on Instagram that the reason was the cooling in the relationship, and wished Ivanov all the best.
The singer added that she had a “wonderful ‘young’ husband for nine years.”
Photo source: Instagram
Now Milyavskaya is 56 years old, Ivanov is 44 years old. They got together in 2010.
Soon the singer began writing in the comments that “everyone has crises,” and she and Dmitry “are still husband and wife.”
But in October, StarHit reported that the reason for the breakup was Ivanov’s affair on the side. According to journalists, the coach met with a cosmetologist from Belarus, 40-year-old Olga Kulieva. Moreover, the meetings began during Ivanov’s relationship with Lolita.
Olga Kulieva / Instagram
Lolita disgraced her husband with details of the breakup
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In the same month, it became known about Ivanov’s attempt to divorce Lolita through the court. The divorce of a couple who does not have common children could have been filed at the registry office, but, as stated in the lawsuit, the spouse avoided this step.
In response, the singer’s lawyer Sergei Zhorin filed a petition to recognize the marriage as fictitious. The defense attorney insisted that Ivanov did not intend to start a family, but entered into marriage in order to obtain Israeli citizenship. Lolita's father immigrated to Israel in the 1970s.
The husband himself noted that he wanted to get a divorce as soon as possible and he did not need citizenship.
In early November, Zhorin presented to the court screenshots of Ivanov’s love correspondence with Olga Kulieva.
“I corresponded with the ladies and got burned.” Lolita's lawyer explained the "hacking" of her ex's correspondence
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The lawyer told kp.ru that Lolita found the correspondence on her computer.
Some of the messages were then shown on the NTV program “Secret for a Million”.
“Your staff, Dimochka, is a staff to all staffs,” wrote the mistress. “And he not only suits my soul and heart, but also my lips.”
Lolita's husband contacted the police after his email and social networks were hacked
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Lolita said that correspondence with her mistress began in mid-2020, when Kulieva was also married. Ivanov also corresponded with other women.
A fitness trainer filed a complaint with the police about his email and Facebook account being hacked.
“My business correspondence was hacked, all my contacts are now in the public domain. And the central channels show everything, it’s simply impossible. Personal and business correspondence,” he told 360.
Milyavskaya was questioned about this statement.
She herself told the Mash Telegram channel that “there were no hacks, the correspondence was left due to his carelessness or stupidity.”
Actor husband
Lolita's previous marriages also did not always end smoothly. The singer’s first husband was a classmate at the Institute of Culture, Alexander Belyaev. Following her actor husband in 1984, she moved from Tambov to Odessa. At the Odessa Philharmonic, Milyavskaya met the leader of the Shlyapa quartet, Alexander Tsekalo, and in 1987 all three - Tsekalo, Lolita and her then husband - left to conquer Moscow.
“We lived with Lolita and Tsekalo in the same living space, in the same apartment. They made money somehow. I started working in a newspaper, in a theater, as an advertising agent, and Lolita and Tsekalo took part in concerts... It was hard. They handed over the bottles,” said Belyaev.
Cabaret duet and fictitious marriage
A few months later, the playful cabaret duet “Academy” of Lolita and Tsekalo became famous throughout the country thanks to the song “Toma-Toma”. After this, Belyaev, as he himself said, left.
For the sake of registration in Moscow, the singer divorced him and entered into a fictitious marriage with Vitaly Milyavsky, from whom she got the sonorous surname.
In her third marriage - with Alexander Tsekalo - the performer lived for 12 years. In addition to performing at concerts, the couple also hosted “Morning Mail” and the program “Good Morning, Country!”
In 1998, shortly before the separation, Lolita gave birth to a daughter, Eva. The girl was born premature and with developmental disabilities. She lives with her grandmother, Lolita's mother, in Kyiv.
In the future, the singer sees Eva as a “good journalist” or a circus historian.
The performer rarely remembers anything good about her marriage to Tsekalo. The separation in 2000 was scandalous. Lolita admitted that she was mired in complexes, felt ugly and unsure of herself.
Loving businessman
She called her union with businessman from Komi Alexander Zarubin her “first real marriage in her life.” The couple formalized their relationship in 2004. When the singer was 44 years old, she became pregnant, however, despite her husband’s care, she had a miscarriage in the fourth month. Soon after this, the couple separated.
Then Lolita became interested in a tennis player from Belarus, squash and fitness coach Dmitry Ivanov.
Who is the father of Lolita Milyavskaya's daughter
Lolita broke up with Alexander Tsekalo shortly after Eva was born. Afterward, she spoke not very flatteringly about her relationship with her husband, emphasizing that their union was far from not only perfection, but also from the generally accepted idea of a family. Everyone lived their own lives.
Lolita repeatedly mentioned not only Alexander’s numerous love interests, but also several of her novels. In one of the interviews, the singer admitted that her ex-husband had nothing to do with the birth of Eva. Journalists were never able to find out the truth about who the father of Lolita’s daughter is.
Son of Konstantin Meladze
Producer Konstantin Meladze divorced his wife Yana in 2013 after 19 years of marriage, the couple had three children together - Alisa, Leah and Valery. Konstantin did not immediately learn that his son suffered from a rare disease - autism. It’s not easy to get used to this diagnosis, because it’s impossible to fight it. For a long time this information was hidden from the press. However, the mother of the boy Valera said that her son suffers from autism in the first interview after her divorce from Meladze.
“Doctors diagnosed Valera with autism. Treatment of this disease in all countries of the world is very expensive, including Ukraine. No, this is not a sentence, this is an execution, after which you were left to live. This is a serious disease that has no cure yet. It is being adjusted. I'm talking about severe autism. Such children can be taught. I think that parents who are faced with a similar problem are familiar with the feeling of fear, helplessness in the face of grief, and shame. Our society does not accept or recognize “others”. But when the child has his first successes, hope and faith awaken - and then a new starting point for genuine victories and bright pride in his child begins. And parents don’t need to be ashamed or blame themselves. Don't think that you might have done something wrong. When you understand what responsible mission you are performing in your child’s life, you will realize the value or even pricelessness of your role. And most importantly: autistic disorder must be diagnosed in the first year of a child’s life! The fatal mistake of doctors and parents is to wait up to three years. Children who begin correct correction before they are one year old show amazing results. And in the end, they are not much different from their peers.”
Valera is a completely normal child in appearance. His parents realized he was sick when he was three years old. He looks great, but lives in his own world. He hardly communicates with people, he has no need for it. The child looks like an enchanted boy who looks exactly the same as us.
