Psychology of feelings
Children with special needs, special or “from God” are the names given to children who are different from their peers. They are completely dependent on their parents (guardians) and are absolutely defenseless in front of the outside world. To raise such a child, you need to spend a lot of effort and patience. But such dedication from parents allows “special” children to become part of society, fight prejudice and feel complete. Which star raises such sons and daughters? See the selection:
Konstantin Meladze
The famous producer divorced his wife Yana in 2013 after 19 years of marriage, the couple had three children together - Alice, Leah and Valery. The latter has autism, which, as we know, cannot be cured. The child's condition can only be corrected.
Anna Netrebko
In 2008, the famous opera diva gave birth to a boy, Thiago, who was diagnosed with autism in his third year of life. Anna is not afraid or ashamed of the fact that her son is special; she encourages other mothers to believe that this disease is not a death sentence.
Sylvester Stallone
Sergio, Sylvester Stallone's youngest son, was also diagnosed with autism. The actor admitted in numerous interviews that the news came as a shock and a blow to him. But he never thought about giving up the child.
Jenny McCarthy
Married to actor and director John Asher, Jenny had a son, Evan. A boy with autism was abandoned by his father, leaving his wife alone to fight the child's terrible illness. She was able to help her son, whose condition noticeably improved.
Toni Braxton
The American singer is raising her son Diesel, who has autism. She stated this directly at the concert for the first time, and also shared that early diagnosis can significantly improve treatment results. The artist allocates a lot of funds for research in the field of autism and is a representative of the Autism Speaks organization. And her son goes to school with ordinary children.
Evelina Bledans
The actress gave birth to her second child, Semyon, already knowing about the illness. Even despite the disappointing forecasts, she decided to let her son be born, refusing an abortion.
Lolita Milyavskaya
The singer’s daughter Eva was first diagnosed with Down syndrome, but later it turned out that the girl had autism. Milyavskaya does not hide her daughter’s illness; she talks about her successes and supports other mothers raising children with genetic characteristics. And 16-year-old Eva now goes to school and practically keeps up with her healthy peers.
Fedor Bondarchuk
The ex-wife of Fyodor Bondarchuk Svetlana gave birth to a girl with Down syndrome. Their daughter grows up in the love and affection that her parents provide, despite personal conflicts.
Irina Khakamada
Doctors diagnosed Khakamada’s daughter with leukemia. In addition, Masha suffers from Down syndrome. The famous mother does everything for her child, and also actively supports other women who have similar problems.
Modern celebrities very often sell the first pictures of newborn children to the media. For a certain amount of money, they are ready to do family photo sessions for everyone to see.
But there are exceptions to this rule. Today in our article we will talk about the singer Alsou
. Her family belongs to a Muslim family and professes Islam. In 2011, Forbes estimated her father's fortune at half a billion dollars. The singer has two brothers, the elder Marat and the younger Renard.
The girl began studying music in early childhood. In 1993, Alsou made her debut on the stage of the Swiss camp with the song “I will always love you”
.
In the winter of 1999, the debut video “Winter Dream” was released. The lyrical ballad instantly became a hit and turned into the singer’s calling card. The successful debut was followed by the videos “Spring” and “Sometimes”.
Alsou was the first in Russian show business to sign a long-term contract with the American recording holding company Universal.
to release seven English-language albums in 35 countries.
In 2000, the girl was entrusted with representing Russia at the Eurovision Song Contest.
in Stockholm. The 16-year-old singer took second place with the song “Solo.” By 2002, the singer was popular both in Russia and abroad.
In April 2005, Alsou's friend introduced her to businessman Yan Abramov
. The first meeting made a good impression on the young people, and he began to actively court the girl. And two months later, Ian proposed to the singer.
The couple married in March 2006
. The ceremony took place not in the usual registry office, but in the Rossiya State Central Concert Hall. The lovers prepared for the wedding for six months. However, Alsou herself solved only creative issues, while Ian took on all the other troubles.
More than 600 people were invited to the celebration
. The scale of the wedding was amazing: the Rossiya concert hall was unrecognizable, because the foyer was draped with purple fabric, and portraits of Alsou and Yan from different periods of life hung on the walls. The newlyweds even came to congratulate the mayor of Moscow, Yuri Luzhkov.
A little later it became known that the singer was expecting a child. The family decided to give birth to their first child in Los Angeles. , daughter Safina was born
.
A year and a half later, on April 28, 2008, Alsou gave birth to her second daughter Mikella
.
Now the couple is raising three children, because in August 2020 their son Rafael
. The boy is already a year and a half old, but the singer has never shown the baby on social networks. Alsou stated that she intends to hide Rafael’s face in the future.
“I haven’t published his photo anywhere yet and I don’t plan to do so in the near future. First of all, I started social networks for my creativity. And that is precisely why I support them.
My children are neither part of my work nor part of my PR, so this topic is closed to me. This was my and Jan’s absolutely thoughtful decision, our very clear and unchanging position.”
“, the singer said in an interview.
The singer also said that the baby has a wayward character, he knows how to manipulate his mother to get what he wants. “He knows how to control adults.
And since there is no talk of any strict education yet, he is allowed a lot. In general, I am a very demanding, strict mother."
,” admitted the artist.
Singer Alsou has been happily married to businessman Yan Abramov for more than 11 years. The couple has three children - two daughters and a son, Rafael, who is only one and a half years old. Both girls study music and have shown that they are quite successful.
Although most of the singer’s fans, having seen a joint photo with her daughters, admired their spontaneity and childish charm, there were also those who decided that the mother’s beauty, unfortunately, did not go to the girls.
“The younger copy is mom, she even holds her head the same way, and the older copy is dad,”
“Oh, no, the youngest is not in Alsou either, unfortunately,”
“There’s no smell of mom’s genes here,”
“It’s a pity that the girls took after their father, maybe they’ll grow up?”
“They both look like their husbands”
“Wow, both daughters look like their dad, at least one of them takes after their mother.”
Discussion of the appearance of children is not very welcome among most subscribers, and many noted that the girls will grow up and become different. It’s too early to talk about the beauty of girls at 11 years old, and is it necessary? After all, the main thing is that children grow up healthy and happy.
07 September 2017
The singer considers herself a strict parent, but admitted that she allows little Rafael a lot.
photo: globallook
Alsou has said more than once that recently, but she believes that a lot depends on the woman. As you know, the singer is a mother of many children. In 2006, she married businessman Yan Abramov, and in the same year their daughter Safina was born. Two years later, another girl appeared in their family - Mikella, and already in August last year their son Rafael was born.
Alsou recently gave a frank interview in which she talked about raising children. She did not hide the fact that she considers herself a fairly strict mother, but for now she allows her youngest child, Rafael, a lot. But she is very strict with girls, because she wants to raise them correctly. Since her son’s zodiac sign is Leo, according to the singer, he is already showing his character. “He knows what he needs, and, most importantly, he knows how to achieve it,” she admitted and noted that the one-year-old baby has already understood how to manipulate adults and is doing it with her.
At the same time, Alsou noted that, in her opinion, boys need to be raised in a tougher manner. She said that the main thing for her is discipline, since children should be well-mannered and polite. The singer not only sets a good example for her older children, but also conducts conversations with them, explaining that they need to share. She doesn't want her children to grow up selfish. The artist also teaches her daughters to work. They study languages and play music, but Alsou does not hide the fact that sometimes she has to force them to do something. She also admitted that she herself has one drawback. The singer suffers from incontinence, and sometimes she is ashamed of it. “It’s probably from my father - he is a very hot-tempered person, but he quickly moves away,” Alsou opened up, giving an interview to the publication “
In the early 2000s, singer Alsou was very popular. The young girl’s songs, filled with dreams and romance, won the hearts of fans in Russia and abroad. It is not surprising that this singer represented Russia at Eurovision, and even took an honorable second place. But how is the girl’s life going now?
Not long ago, Alsou gave birth to her third child, and photos of the happy mother with news about her immediately appeared on the Internet. This news made her fans very happy. In the article we will discuss the singer’s creative biography and some details of her personal life.
People have been talking about Alsou for a long time. But she is still a very young woman. She was born in 1983 in Bugulma (Tatar ASSR). The girl's mother is an architect. Dad was previously a businessman, and now he has found himself in big-time politics. He holds the position of senator in the Federation Council of Russia. Alsou also has two brothers. Until she was nine years old, the girl lived with her family in the very north of Russia - in the city of Kogalym, in very harsh weather conditions. It is unbearably cold there in winter and incredibly hot in summer. In addition, the family at that time lived quite poorly.
The girl said in an interview that as a child she ate stale apples and old, sprouted potatoes. When the girl was given a package of oranges and chocolate on New Year's Eve, she stretched out the pleasure for several months - she ate the delicacy just a little at a time.
In 1992, the move to Moscow took place. And in the new city, Alsou began to go not only to a regular school, but also to a music school. Her family moved all the time. And in 1995, Alsou began studying in London. Despite the fact that she was taught the basics of business, drawing and mathematics, the girl liked music most of all. She continued to do it.
It all started when Alsou was five, her parents bought her a piano. The future star enjoyed studying at the music school, despite the fact that it was located on the other side of the city. When Alsou moved to the capital, she continued her studies, and the teachers praised her very much.
In 1993, the girl was vacationing at a camp in Switzerland, and there she first appeared on stage with a song by the legendary Whitney Houston. Even then, her performance created a sensation, but Alsou did not even dream of becoming a singer. I must say that the girl was very modest and shy.
In an interview, Alsou, who recently gave birth to her third child, later recalled that her peers considered her arrogant because she did not approach them first to communicate. In fact, the girl could not overcome her shyness. Therefore, she communicated only with those who were the first to offer her friendship. Only many years later did she understand how important it is to overcome herself and cope with her complexes.
Popularity
In 1998, Alsou, whose family has a special child growing up, again performed Whitney Houston’s song “I Will Always Love You.” This time at his brother's wedding. Then one of the invitees noted the talented girl’s singing and strongly recommended that her parents introduce Alsou to producer Valery Belotserkovsky. He was one of the most famous producers of that time.
Alsou made an impression on Belotserkovsky, and he, in turn, introduced her to talented songwriters. They wrote several hits for the young star.
The song “Winter Dream” made Alsou famous. Success was brought not only by the bewitching voice of the young singer and her beauty, but also by the provocative video. It was based on the work of Vladimir Nabokov - “Lolita”.
The heroine Alsou falls in love with an adult man with whom she cannot have anything. Later, the theme of forbidden love will still be raised in the singer’s videos. For example, in the video for the song “Spring”. It is not surprising that Alsou’s songs immediately became hits.
That same year, the girl entered into an agreement with the prestigious record company Universal, according to which as many as seven of her albums would soon be released in English.
In 2000, when Alsou was only sixteen years old, she conquered the Eurovision Song Contest. In Stockholm, Alsou performed the song “Solo” and became one of the leaders of the competition. In addition, she was able to prove to everyone that even at a young age you can become a world-famous star.
The support of her fans helped the girl cope with her anxiety. After all, the singer was afraid to go on stage at the beginning of her career. The support team had to literally push her to the exit. For example, when she first had to perform the song “Winter Dream,” the singer’s knees trembled in horror.
She firmly understood that she would not be able to sing in public. Then the producer spoke harshly to her for the first time. He asked: “Why are you wasting my time then?” The girl went on stage and saw that the hall was sold out. The whole audience helped Alsou sing. They picked up the words of the song and sang along with pleasure. This support was very important for the aspiring singer.
Moreover, the singer recorded a duet with Enrique Iglesias, who was incredibly popular at the time. In 2001, she received an award from the World Music Awards. An English-language album entitled “Alsou” was released next. In 2001, MTV recognized her as the most popular performer in Russia. She beats such stars as Zemfira, Tatu, Bi-2, Mumiy Troll.
Biography of Alsou (Safina)
Alsou was born in June (27) in 1983. The place of birth was the city of Bugulma in the Tatar Autonomous Okrug of the Russian Federation. Then the family moved to the North, where they lived until Alsou reached the age of 9 years.
The climate zone was harsh, so there were no edible delights. The singer recalls old apples that were treated with wax, which contributed to their preservation, as well as sprouted potatoes. Receiving gifts for the New Year, which consisted of oranges and chocolates, the 5-year-old girl tried to make sure that they would last for a long time, since the North did not contribute to fruit abundance.
Alsou's biography began to take on creative shape at the age of five, when she was given a piano. To do this, she promised that she would become a professional in playing this instrument. From the age of 5, the girl regularly attends music lessons at a music school, although it was located in another part of the town.
In mid-1992, the family of the future singer moved to the capital of Russia, Moscow, Alsou studied in high school and continued to master the art of music. Next year Alsou is traveling to the USA to live and study in the largest city in America (New York) for 6 months. Then we moved again, this time to Denmark, to Copenhagen.
Since 1995, Alsou began studying at the British MPW College, where training is conducted in an English-language program, focusing on studying the basics of business, mathematics and fine arts. When Alsou moved to England, she began to miss her home and loved ones, but she soon adapted and settled into the environment of other students. This contributed to obtaining the maximum base of the English language.
The first time a professional musician assessed Alsou’s song talent occurred in 1998. At a wedding celebration in honor of her brother, she sang the song “I will always love you,” after which Valery Belotserkovsky, who directed Megapol, appreciated the talent of the young performer thanks to one of her mother’s friends. She was the organizer of this meeting.
V. Belotserkovsky introduced the young talent to famous authors - A. Shevchenko and V. Baykov. They wrote songs for Alsou, which she performed brilliantly. The performer’s discography in 1999 consisted of three songs: “Winter Dream”, “Spring” and “Sometimes”, which became her calling card. In the same year, the singer’s first album was released, which sold with resounding success. Just before the New Year, Alsou goes on his first tour, which takes place in 6 cities of the Russian Federation, Ukraine and Belarus. The singer performed all the songs in her own voice, as they say “live”.
The year 2000 became a landmark year for Alsou’s creative activity. She went to the Eurovision international music competition to perform on behalf of Russia. Alsou performed well. For the composition “Solo” the young artist received second place, losing only a little to the Danish performers. All residents of Russia rejoiced at the first success of their compatriots at Eurovision. After that, people started talking about Alsou not only in Russia, but all over the world. In the same year, Alsou was awarded the title “People’s Artist of Tatarstan.”
After a triumphant victory (who can say that second place is not a victory!), the girl again began to study selflessly. After finishing her studies in London, the young girl goes on a tour. A top-flight star, Enrique Iglesias, wanted to perform a song with her, and the song in a duet with whom created a sensation.
Alsou is also studying at the Russian Academy of Theater Arts, where he is studying acting, since the Russian school of drama is the best. In 2002, she was awarded the title “Best Performer of 2002,” which beat out even Diva (Alla Pugacheva), who, however, was not offended by this.
In 2009, she was entrusted with hosting Eurovision in Moscow, which she did brilliantly together with Andrei Malakhov. In the same year, a film was shot with her participation, directed by Svetlana Druzhinina.
Alsou is the winner of a number of prizes and awards, including several “Golden Gramophones” and “Song of the Year” titles.
Recently, the singer has somewhat disappeared from movie screens. This is due to the birth of her third child and the fact that Alsou decided to devote more time to her family, because she is a real woman of the East.
Alsou: family, children, photo
Despite the fact that Alsou was very popular, little was known about the girl’s personal life. But in April 2005 everything changed. Alsou met her future husband, entrepreneur Yan Abramov.
In an interview, Alsou later admitted that Ian was different from all the young people she had ever known. Her friends walked around in torn jeans and sneakers and preferred to spend time in nightclubs. And Ian, despite his young age, was already an accomplished successful businessman. In addition, he looked very elegant and looked after the girl beautifully. Alsou could not help but appreciate this.
In addition, Alsou seemed to be an interesting and deep person. Very attentive, delicate. Having met Ian, Also no longer wanted to part with him. And now she is completely happy.
Of course, Ian was fascinated by the girl and made a lot of efforts to win her love. However, the girl also liked Ian. That is why in 2006 she became his wife. They began preparing for the wedding another six months in advance. Alsou was responsible for the creative side of the event, and her future husband controlled other issues.
Interestingly, approximately six hundred invited guests attended the wedding event. The wedding ceremony took place in the Rossiya State Concert Hall, which was specially decorated for this day with many flowers. Moscow Mayor Yuri Luzhkov congratulated the singer. Foreign stars performed at the event.
Where does Alsou live?
Currently Alsou lives in London. He comes to Moscow quite rarely.
Alsou's height and weight
According to data from the Internet, Alsou’s height is 172 cm, and her weight is around 50 kg.
Mama Alsou: photo
After marriage, Alsou began to devote more time to her family. Her career seems to have taken a back seat for her. However, after her marriage, she continued to work and record new songs, and her husband did not stop her from doing this.
True, in 2006 it became known that Alsou was expecting a child. On September 7, her daughter, Safina, was born. And in April 2008, Alsou gave birth to another daughter, Michela. From time to time she continues to sing and participate in events. But not as often as it was at the beginning of her career.
Alsou family
Now Alsou’s family is her beloved husband, Ian, and children, whom she raises herself, not trusting strangers. Alsou also has a mother and father. Her father, Relif Safin, is a deputy in the Federation Council from the Altai Territory. He is a big businessman who can come to the aid of anyone who needs his help in difficult situations. Mom, Razia Ishakovna, is engaged in housekeeping, although she received an education in architecture. She helps raise Alsou's children, as well as her brothers.
Alsou has two brothers who love their little sister. One, the eldest, is called Marat, and the youngest is Renard. Both brothers are married and happily married, each of them has children, Alsou’s nephews.
Alsou's family has uncles and aunts, whom the singer also considers family. The whole family rarely gets together, due to the busyness of each of them. But if this happens, then the celebration of events amazes everyone around with its scope.
Daughter Alsou - Safina Abramova
Alsou's daughter, Safina Abramova, was born in a Miami clinic in 2006. For a long time, the mother hid her daughter, not showing her to the general public. And only a few years ago, when she was 6 years old, Alsou brought her to light on the “Children’s New Wave”. The girl sang a song with her mother, from which it can be judged that she has excellent vocal abilities.
Alsou admits that her husband came up with such a name to please her and her father, because the singer’s maiden name is Safina. The artist says that her eldest daughter is similar to her in character. She is very dreamy and thoughtful. He does well in school and makes progress in music and chess.
How did Alsou react to the scandal?
Daughter Alsou won the competition, receiving 1 million rubles. The girl really has a beautiful voice, but many people are sure that the other finalists are more talented and worthy of victory. Alsou and Mikella were hit with negativity, which led to the restriction of the ability to leave comments under pages on social networks.
Photo: kommersant
A few months later, channel employees confirmed the presence of some “anomalies” in the vote counting process, so the results of the project were cancelled. This information became known after a special release on May 24. All the children except Mikella participated in this concentration, although she received an invitation. At the end of the show, Konstantin Ernst announced all the finalists as winners.
How did Russian stars react?
Many celebrities reacted negatively to Mikkela's victory:
- Nagiyev openly spoke about the need to cancel the results to check fraud;
- Valery Meladze said on social networks that he expects a review of the vote;
- Aglaya Shilovskaya, the host of the program, confirmed that the channel’s management and jury members were shocked by the results;
- Galkin assured that he would never allow his children to participate in competitions in which there is no fair assessment of talent.
